That a woman should always be available for sex with her husband whether she wants it or not. Feminists and sex psychologists worldwide are taking the ladies back to class to teach them differently. That it is appropriate to say No when you mean no. And not what the men have come to believe that a woman's yes means a greedy yes, a No actually means yes and silence means consent. If you are not in the mood, much as the men hate that phrase, you are not in the damn mood! Any problem with that?

That simultaneous orgasm is necessary for true sexual satisfaction. Not always, says Dr. Derek Llewellyn Jones. But you shouldn't need the late doc to tell you that in one of his books. Some women orgasm during foreplay and let their men orgasm later during intercourse, some do it after and, sadly, some may not orgasm at all for different reasons. But it doesn't mean that you get up and sign divorce papers! Work on those different reasons. Together.

That men always know how to arouse women, so if a woman fails to get fireworks from his efforts, she is to blame. They say that learning is a continuous process. You may not believe how much about each other's bodies you may not know!

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