6 December 2013

Africa: Mandela Memories

Photo: GCIS
People leaving flowers and messages of support for Former President Nelson Mandela at Medi-Clinic in Pretoria.


Washington, DC — Nelson Mandela's death will reorder the moral construct of our world. It forces all citizen activists, freedom fighters, human rights defenders and young people worldwide to reflect on our common global state and measure the depth of our human commitment to liberty, justice and equality.

At least that is the case for me and my involvement with Madiba. In 1989 I became president of the African-American Institute (AAI), a leading non-profit championing the end of apartheid and freedom for Nelson Mandela and the Rivonia Eight, at the core of its mission. AAI, and particularly its dedicated senior vice president Frank Ferrari, had been working with the ANC and others seeking change for decades.

On Sunday, February 11, 1990, Frank and I talked on the phone, eyes glued to the TV, and wept with joy as we watched Nelson Mandela walk out of Victor Verster Prison, holding hands with Winnie. Two weeks later, Frank and I found ourselves sitting on a black leather sofa in the living room of Madiba's home in Soweto. We had to pinch ourselves to believe it. Just then, Nelson Mandela walked into the room with a big smile. It was a moment as close to heaven as I shall ever come.

He spent over an hour with us, re-affirming his commitment to a nonviolent transition, stressing his belief in a new, non-racial state.

He underscored his rock-solid commitment to the ANC and its decision-making structure, and restated his strong belief in education as the key to a strong, democratic nation. Winnie came in and Madiba introduced Frank and me to her. She smiled shyly, exchanged a few words and excused herself. As we resumed the conversation, I asked about women's special role in the liberation struggle, and he spoke of Winnie, Albertina Sisulu and other women. We could hear the pride in his voice for their courage and steadfastness, and his sorrow for their inevitable sacrifices.

At the end of the meeting, when I struggled to express how much he meant to our world and what an icon he was, he gently shushed me. Frank and I left, knowing that we had been in the presence of a living saint.

I met with Madiba several times over the course of those heady first four years and beyond. In his first, triumphant U.S. visit he reinforced his message of non-violent change, but cautioned that change was inevitable.

He had a remarkable memory and easy facility to capture just the right word to make the person feel that he or she held a special place in his heart. At reception in his honor at the home of AIDS researcher and activist Dr. Mathilde Krim, he joked about movies in reference to her film-producer husband, Arthur Krim. On another occasion, he took pictures with Mike Tyson at the UN after his speech to the General Assembly. He was an accessible hero to every man and woman who dreamed of freedom and justice.

At President Bill Clinton's first inaugural ball, Madiba was sitting in an upper section of the ballroom with only a few bodyguards. I had hoped to see him to confirm that the African-American Institute would present him with its prestigious annual Star Crystal Award at Blair House the next day. These were the days before 9/11, so I was able to talk our way past the guards for my husband and me to go to his cordoned-off seating area.

Madiba recognized me, smiled, got up and assured me that he was looking forward to the next day's program. By that time, President Clinton and Hillary had arrived. Bill was coming to serenade Nelson Mandela on his saxaphone, so Bob and I stayed put as I sat next to Madiba for President Clinton's salute to the South African leader. Again, Madiba looked at me and smiled, as if to assure me that it was alright for us to be there with him.

The next day we presented President Mandela with the African-American Institute's Arthur A. Houghton Star Crystal Award for Excellence. The photo of the Blair House moment is a stunning picture of Madiba; AAI board chairman, Maurice Tempelsman, a staunch anti-apartheid supporter and strong friend of many African leaders; Frank Ferrari; and Executive VP Steve MacDonald. The occasion was a stellar moment for AAI as Madiba thanked AAI for its steadfast advocacy, reflected on the importance of education for a healthy nation and painted a picture of a future South Africa as a rainbow nation.

It was on that occasion that Madiba called me his girlfriend. I murmured, "I accept." Overhearing me, then-AAI Board member, Roger Wilkins, asked me what my husband Bob would say. I whispered, "He'll understand."

For all of our chance meetings, I most appreciated the opportunity to work with Madiba on HIV/AIDS. Madiba understood the scourge of HIV/AIDS, the human and economic toil that it was taking on his people and the disease's harsh stigma that drove people from their homes, sometimes ending in tragic deaths. Nelson Mandela had a major substantive impact on the way South Africa dealt with the disease. By giving the crisis his personal attention, he shamed crisis deniers to action.

In 2000, I was the Assistant Administrator for Africa at USAID, visiting South Africa for consultations and an HIV/AIDS conference. A joint meeting had been set up with Madiba for Sandy Thurman, White House HIV/AIDS Coordinator, and me. We were to visit an AIDS orphanage together. The children were nattily dressed and eager to sing. Big bright smiles lit their faces as Madiba ambled in. He greeted the children, hugging two or three, and slowly walked towards me. With his big smile he asked, "Do you remember me?" I laughed with delight and we hugged at the time.

With Thursday's news, my answer is "Yes, Madiba. I remember and revere you, as does the entire world. A generous man of wisdom, vision, tenacity, humility and grace, you will always be our saint. We and our children and our children's children will remember you into eternity."

Vivian Lowery Derryck, president of The Bridges Institute, was president of the African-American Institute from 1989 to 1995.

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